How to Utilize Email and Online Dating

Online dating is no different from standard dating. We are all trying to find someone who is similar to us, yet will challenge us and bring a whole knew element into our lives. Don't be shy! Have fun and stay safe! Independent Singles top tip: Be safe! Always tell someone who you are meeting and where you are going.

When emailing and calling prior to meeting for the first time, talk often and on varied topics. Don't hog the conversation or talk only about yourself.Try to ask open ended questions, and be honest about who you are, what you are looking for, and be realistic about things. Some people thrive on 'breaking down' your walls you may have built up due to past relationships. If that's the case, put your guard up until they open up to you. Dating is a two way thing, and when one person becomes more 'involved' in a possible future than the other, someone will always get hurt. Don't change your thoughts, opinions or who you are because you think the other person might like you better if you claim to be something they are looking for. Take your time, go slow, and keep your options open until you are 100% sure you and the other person are on the 'same page' and looking for the same things

 Remember that the whole idea of online dating is that eventually you do actually leave your computer and meet people. Enjoy the emailing, but don't let it go on for weeks and weeks without meeting up. You need to make sure that the spark is not just in your imagination and that your online romance can stand the test of realette life chemistry. So if you like someone and you're confident you get on, ask them if they want to meet up.